Be inspired by something you love, then go change the world
Tabitha H. Wilson
Autism Mom
Founder of Amazing House of Hope
Autism Research & Development Center Inc.
Author
Anti-Bullying / Special Needs Advocate
Content Creator
Youth Mental Health First Aid Certified
Physician Assistant Certified
Registered Dietitian
Speaker
CEO - No Cross No Crown Publishing
Like many of you, I wear a lot of hats both inside and outside of my home. I often find myself showing up for everyone else, sometimes putting my own needs on the back burner. I’m sure that sounds familiar to some of you. Where’s the fun in that, you might ask? Well, I’m a giver by nature, and when giving comes from the heart, it never feels like I’m short-changing myself. Besides, I’m a child of God… and that’s simply what we do. We give.
I’m also the proud mother of Elijah and Niamya (nee-ya-my-ya), who are now 20 and 17. Parenting is never easy, but being their mom is one of the greatest joys of my life. Trust me, those two have taken me on quite a journey, but to me, there’s no excitement in raising a “perfect” child. There is incredible growth, strength, and purpose that comes from navigating real challenges. Raising a child with autism, along with supporting a child who has experienced depression as a result of bullying, required a tremendous amount of time, patience, and advocacy. Yet, it was truly an honor to stand in that space for them, and the experience shaped me into a stronger, more resilient person. Being a mom is, without question, the most rewarding job I’ve ever had. Even without a paycheck, the benefits are priceless, and I wouldn’t trade my “mom card” for anything in the world.
Education has always been important to me, and I have pursued a great deal of it over the years. In the early 2000s, I even had the opportunity to teach clinical medicine at Howard University. For a long time, I followed society’s traditional definition of success, but life has a way of redirecting us in unexpected ways. Certain life experiences placed me in a position where I now have the opportunity to call the shots in my own life. I’ll admit, stepping out on faith and beginning a new career path felt intimidating at first. But over time, I realized that no one will ever work harder for my vision than I will.
Creativity has always been a part of who I am. I love building things, creating things, and trying new things. In fact, I even created my own website. And trust me, life is truly about trial and error… You would definitely understand if you saw the very first version of that website. Let’s just say there has been quite a bit of growth along the way — LOL!
My greatest inspirations are my grandmother, my mother, and my children. Their strength, love, and influence have helped shape the woman I am today. During a time when I recognized I was facing spiritual warfare, Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts felt present with me in spirit throughout much of my journey. Even though we have never met, I firmly believe that God places certain people in our lives at the exact moments we need them most. I am also deeply grateful for the many pastors, both near and far, who have poured wisdom, encouragement, and truth into my life. These God-fearing leaders have played a meaningful role in shaping my spiritual walk and helping me discover my purpose.
My mission in life is to “open eyes and change lives” by doing everything God has called me to do for His glory.
I love nature, and I especially enjoy writing during the winter, which happens to be my favorite season… maybe that has something to do with being a winter baby. There’s nothing quite like being curled up on the sofa near a warm, roaring fire, sipping hot chocolate, enjoying a little junk food, and reflecting on life’s most memorable experiences through writing. Honestly, it doesn’t take much to make me happy. Just give me a pen and some paper, and I’m completely content.
Spending time with God each day is something I truly look forward to. It’s one of the most fulfilling parts of my routine and helps keep me mentally grounded and centered. That connection brings clarity, peace, and strength, especially during life’s more challenging moments.
My genre is nonfiction. I have far too many exciting, dramatic, and very real-life experiences to even consider writing fiction. In fact, some of the things I’ve lived through are so unbelievable, they almost sound made up. Because of that, many of my books naturally appeal to readers across multiple genres.
I believe that honestly capturing the essence of my experiences can serve as encouragement for others who may be navigating similar challenges. There’s something comforting about knowing the author truly understands what you may be feeling. I’m also not afraid to sprinkle in a little humor, even in the most serious situations. Life can be stressful enough as it is, and sometimes it helps to look beyond the heaviness to find a small spark of laughter. After all, it takes 17 muscles to smile and 43 to frown… so why overwork?
A Little More About Me...
Childhood Years
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I’m a small-town country girl, born in Trenton, New Jersey, and raised in the heart of South Jersey. I grew up in a tiny place called Elm, nestled between Atlantic City and Philadelphia. The town is so small that if you blink, you might miss the entire Elm experience. Our home wasn’t large, but it was filled with so much love that it was truly a joy to call it home. There weren’t any children in my neighborhood, which naturally encouraged me to develop a creative imagination. One of my greatest sources of excitement was receiving a new issue of Highlights Magazine. I would spend hours sitting beneath the big oak tree in our front yard, completing the activities, reading children’s books that carried me to places I had only dreamed of, and writing poetry that seemed to flow effortlessly from my heart. Writing became my great escape. Through it, I could explore any place my imagination would take me. I must have climbed that oak tree hundreds of times. I trusted its strong, sturdy branches with my life as it supported the back of my knees while I hung upside down, fearlessly suspended high above the ground. That tree and I share a history deeper than the ocean. It felt like a best friend who knew my innermost thoughts. I would whisper my deepest secrets aloud, trusting that the tree would hold them quietly within its roots. I often find myself reflecting on the memories we shared. Although I’ve grown and moved on, that big oak tree still stands tall and strong. Sometimes I wonder… does my favorite tree remember me?
Young Adult Years
As a teenager, my biggest dream was to leave that tiny little town where I often felt hidden and, one day, see the world. After graduating from a small Catholic school, the only path I could envision that would make this dream possible was going away to college… so that became my plan. My first choice was Howard University. My mom didn’t make much money, and I didn’t have two dimes to rub together or even a nickel’s worth of change, but I was determined to make Howard my reality. I am incredibly grateful to have been raised by two dynamic women of God who filled our home with positivity, encouragement, and faith. In our household, the word “can’t” simply didn’t exist. My mom often reminded me, “Anything the mind can conceive and believe, I could achieve,” and my grandmother’s prayers continually affirmed those words. Through it all, my upbringing was grounded in a strong spiritual foundation. The power of prayer was deeply engraved in my spirit, and no matter how far life would take me from home, I always knew I was never alone. God would always be with me.
Education
Education
Wow! So many amazing and distinguished individuals are products of the world-renowned Howard University… and guess what? I’m one of them! I still remember the day my mom and I met with my advisor. I looked like a true homegrown country girl, as if I had just stepped off a tumbleweed farm. I was proudly wearing my blue jean overalls and skippy white sneakers, completely unaware that I was about to experience a serious introduction to the famous Howard fashion scene on campus. Let’s just say… it was a wake-up call! My advisor reassured my mother that, in time, I would experience quite the transformation, and when I returned home, she might not even recognize me. Sure enough, by the time summer break arrived, I went home looking completely different, with a new sense of style and a confidence that radiated from within. I had truly blossomed into a new version of myself. I was now officially one of the Bison’s best — a proud Howardite! Without question, there is absolutely no experience quite like the Howard Bison experience. “You Know!” (as we say at Howard). It was simply AMAZING, and it remains a true honor to call myself a graduate of “The Mecca!”
Career
My career spans more than twenty-five years as a dietitian, including meaningful work in AIDS research, geriatrics, and the Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) program. Over the years, I have also developed an extensive background in medicine as a physician assistant, with experience across a wide range of specialties, including anesthesiology, correctional medicine, general surgery, cardiothoracic surgery, neurosurgery, internal medicine, gastroenterology, mental health, emergency medicine, urgent care, and pediatrics. Each role has contributed to my professional growth and expanded my perspective, allowing me to serve patients with both skill and compassion. While pediatrics holds a special place in my heart, every opportunity has helped shape the depth and reach of my experience. Collectively, my shadow is of a larger dimension from each experience, which has broadened my impact and strengthened my commitment to making a meaningful difference in the lives of others.
